S E L F I S H N E S S


Hi Guys! Now I'm going to talk about selfishness. I bet everyone has their "selfishness". I have been a selfish person, and all of you might have been selfish. Selfish people always focus on themselves. They always think about themselves and do the best for themselves. I don't want to be selfish but sometimes, it's really hard to be unselfish person.

MY OPINION about Selfishness

Why people become selfish sometimes?
I think because they just consider about themselves. Nobody is perfect. They are too concern about themselves, or something that's related to themselves.

Do you think that selfishness can be overcome?
Might. I don't think so. It just depends on the characteristic of the people. If they are really concern about themselves and they don't care about their environment, their friends, or even their relatives, I think selfishness will be so hard to overcome for those kind of people.

Do you think that selfishness is useful?
Sometimes it's usefull... LOL... My teacher said that to me. But I think, it won't be useful. Humans are social persons - we can't live by ourselves. We need to make friends in this vast world. We need people's helps and they need our helps too. As humans, we help each other, and cooperate to find a way when we've got a problem. Every cloud has a silver lining...

How to be an unselfish person?
Care about your friends. The first and the easiest thing to be an unselfish person is to care about your environment or your family/friends. You have to help your friends and I'm sure that they will help you if you have a problem. At least you don't have to be really concern about yourself...

Do you think that you're a selfish person?
I'm not a selfish person but sometimes I can be selfish. Selfishness is really hard to be erased in every people's mind. It's so hard and the only people who can erase the selfishness, is just yourself... You need to control your mind so as not to be selfish - I think...

"After all, I don't see why I am always asking for private, individual, selfish miracles when every year there are miracles like white dogwood."  - Anne Morrow Lindbergh .

I wish all of the people in this world wouldn't be a selfish people. I believe that we can do it! We can do it! :)

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Believe...

"If you don't believe in yourself, you will feel the worst thing in your life..."




I always hate the time when I don't believe in myself. Just now when I was in my English course, I wanted to answer a question, but I didn't think that my answer was correct. I knew that I had to believe in myself, but I just got the influence - I didn't know where it came from... So, I wrote the wrong answer. You might not understand about this actually... At least, I'm speechless right now, I don't know how to tell to all of you. But... At least I just want to say to all of you, to believe in yourself... Due to the fact that I didn't believe in myself, I couldn't get the best score in my class.


I have learnt a lot of things from these quotes below...

"Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense." - Buddha


"It is always better to have no ideas than false ones; to believe nothing, than to believe what is wrong." - Thomas Jefferson


"The probability that we may fail in the struggle ought not to deter us from the support of a cause we believe to be just."  - Abraham Lincoln

 
"I do not believe in the God of theology who rewards good and punishes evil." - Albert Einstein

"So, just believe in yourself, and be confident. Start from right now, I will always be confident and believe in myself. Tadda!"



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Waisak Day 2010

"Selamat Hari Raya Waisak 2554 bagi kalian yang merayakan!"

Wah, nggak kerasa ya sudah memasuki Hari Raya Waisak lagi... Perayaan Waisak tahun 2010 kali ini dirayakan dengan cukup meriah. Detik-detik Waisak kali ini dilaksanakan pada pagi hari, kurang lebih jam 6. Kalian pasti sudah tidak asing lagi dengan Hari Raya Waisak, bukan? Hari Raya Waisak sudah masuk menjadi salah satu bagian dari kebudayaan Indonesia. 
Bagi umat Buddha, Waisak adalah :
1. Hari di mana memulai hidup baru / tahun baru. Hari di mana dosa-dosa dan kesalahan para umat Buddha dihapuskan.
2. Hari di mana Buddha mencapai penerangan sempurna (Arahat).
3. Peringatan terhadap usaha Buddha yang telah membabarkan ajaranNya (Dhamma) selama 45 tahun sebelum Beliau mengalami Parinibanna. Ajaran Buddha adalah : Janganlah berbuat jahat, perbanyaklah perbuatan baik, sucikan hati dan pikiran.

Waisak 2010 dirayakan di Candi Borobudur, Magelang, Jawa Tengah dan dihadiri oleh banyak umat Buddha untuk bersembahyang.


Buddha's Quotes :
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.


Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.


A dog is not considered a good dog because he is a good barker. A man is not considered a good man because he is a good talker.

You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.


All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him.


Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.


Happy Waisak Day all! Buddha Bless You :)







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Freedom!!!

So, what do you think about "Freedom". Everyone loves freedom, because freedom is needed by everyone. I'm so happy because I feel that "Free". I have finished my examination, and now I'm feeling so free... I remembered when I studied until midnight, and woke up on 5.30 a.m... Haha, but now it's all over!

I think Freedom is something that is really needed by everyone. Everybody needs freedom. Freedom is something that can make a change. Freedom is the greatest time to find inspirations. Freedom is the greatest chance for humans to have some fun and lose control! I love freedom...

Talking about "Freedom", actually I realize that freedom is really hard to get. Freedom is really priceless, I think. We can only get it after having a suffer. For example, I can feel "this" feeling after studying for the test. Every country can get a freedom by struggling and fighting for their countries. All of the soldiers were trying to be the winner when the World War II, remember that?

Everybody expresses Freedom by raising their hands and saying "We are free! We are free from suffer, we are free from everything that is suffering, we have reached what we wanna have, A FREEDOM!"

To celebrate the freedom, now... Raise your hands and say "I AM FREE!"

God Bless You all...

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Mother's Day Around the World


So, what do you think about Mother's Day? Do you think that it's important? I think Mother's Day is really important because it's the time to tell our feeling about how we love her. The greatest position that every woman wants is to be a mother in their life. I regard Mother's Day as a very special, but sometimes I scared to say I love You to my Mom, and I feel that I'm really shy. 


"For my greatest hero, for my wonderful banker, for my professional chef and doctor, for a part of my life, for the most beautiful woman in my mind, and for my everything... I just want to say I ♥ you. Now, say it to your Mom! Happy Mother's Day around the world... :)"


~ My mom is my greatest hero for me because she always takes care of me with her love. I really appreciate what she has done with me.


~ My mom is my wonderful banker because she always gives me money whenever I need them. As a child, I'm poor because actually, everything belongs to my Mom. My uniform, my clothes, my shoes, and all of my things. They're brought by my Mom and Dad's money.


~ My mom is my professional chef because she never feels tired to cook for me. And she is a good cooker! She is good at cooking and everybody loves the way she cook (because she cooks so fast), and the food that she makes are really great! Taste, yummy! My mom is a good doctor too because she never feels tired to take care of me when I'm sick, and I love her!


~ My mom is a part of my life that is really hard to be separated, my mom is the most beautiful woman in my mind, and my mom is my everything. 


Mom, If I hurt your feelings, you will always forgive me. You give me punishments that make me become a good child. You always take care of me, you work for me. You are a good entertainer and you always make me smile with your jokes. You are the one who always support me so that I can reach my dream. You always help me when I've got a problem. You are my shelter, you always defend me. 


I know you will feel really hurted when I hurt your feelings. I know if I killed myself and let the doctor took my kidney, my lungs, liver, and all parts of my body, it wouldn't cure your feelings. You don't want anything for me, you don't want my money to cure your feelings, but you just want my apology. And when I say I'm sorry to you, you will be very happy and it will cure your feelings.


I just don't know how to say thank you to you. You are the best for me! I love you so much, Mom...


Happy Mother's Day Around the World!!!



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My Favorites ...

Hi, Guys! Now, I'm going to tell you about my favorites bla bla bla... The things that I like and they're all dedicated to me...

Q : Start from the simple one. What is your favorite food?
A : I like every food but I really like Chinese food, steak, and grilled. They are really delicious to be eaten. I'm crazy about chicken noodle, or soups. Like them a lot!

Q : Now, what is your favorite drink?
A : I really like cappuccino/chocolate milk shake, tea, coffee, and mineral water.

Q : What is your favorite movie?
A : I like adventurous and fantasy movie like Percy Jackson and the Lightning Thief. I also like Barbie movies because I love the effects and the fantasy stories! Action movie is not bad too.

Q : What is your favorite day?
A : I like Saturday Night. I'm a Night person.

Q : What is your favorite band / celebrity?
A : I like Jonas Brothers' songs because they are awesome! I also like Demi, Selena, and Brie Larson because they are great and talented!

Q : What site do you often open?
A : Now is Blogspot.

Q : Do you like Twilight?
A : I don't think so. :)

Q : Do you like making story? What kind of story is it?
A : A lot. I like making adventurous and fantasy story! :)

Q : What favorite music do you like?
A : I like upbeat, electro rock, and pop musics.
Q : Which one  do you prefer, Angel or Devil?
A : Angel, naturally...

Q : Your favorite colour?
A : I like black, white, and blue.

Q : Your favorite style?
A : I like something that's comfy to wear... Just that, simple...
Getcha! Bye all! I'm so boring. I just twisting my pen and saying, Laa dee daa~ See ya!

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Movie part 1...

Hi, Guys! So, if I'm talking about my family, or even your family, what words will you say for the first time? Family is really unique. Sometimes, it can be very annoying. But sometimes, you will feel that your family is the greatest present from God. Sometimes you really love your family, but sometimes you really don't like your family. That's it!

Actually family is the first and foremost for me. It is the greatest present from God to me. Without them, I will feel loneliness and scariness in my mind. I will never know about something that's really funny, something that's really adventurous. My mind will be filled with all sad things, or maybe I feel that it's really useless to live in this earth. I really thank God for my family : My daddy, my mommy, my sisters, my grandma, and also my friends! They are really helpful for me.

I just watched a movie that had been released in 2003. The title of the movie is : Freaky Friday, starring : Jamie Lee Curtis, Lindsay Lohan, Mark Harmon, Harold Gould, and Chad Michael Murray. It's about an overworked woman and her 15 year - old daughter. They are not get along with each other. One day, they have a big argument in a Chinese Restaurant. And after they eat a fortune cookie, suddenly their bodies are switched in the next day. But those things make their relationship become good, and finally they have a good relationship, such as mother and daughter. Wanna see the stories! See it on Youtube. 

Here is one of the scenes :

STARRING : 
Jamie Lee Curtis as Dr. Tess Coleman
Lindsay Lohan as Anna Coleman

                                       Chad Michael Murray as Jake


























































The movie is really fantastic! It's funny and I really enjoy watching this movie. As a family, we need to be honest and helping every each other....
























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