Hi Guys! Now I'm going to talk about selfishness. I bet everyone has their "selfishness". I have been a selfish person, and all of you might have been selfish. Selfish people always focus on themselves. They always think about themselves and do the best for themselves. I don't want to be selfish but sometimes, it's really hard to be unselfish person.
MY OPINION about Selfishness
Why people become selfish sometimes?
I think because they just consider about themselves. Nobody is perfect. They are too concern about themselves, or something that's related to themselves.
Do you think that selfishness can be overcome?
Might. I don't think so. It just depends on the characteristic of the people. If they are really concern about themselves and they don't care about their environment, their friends, or even their relatives, I think selfishness will be so hard to overcome for those kind of people.
Do you think that selfishness is useful?
Sometimes it's usefull... LOL... My teacher said that to me. But I think, it won't be useful. Humans are social persons - we can't live by ourselves. We need to make friends in this vast world. We need people's helps and they need our helps too. As humans, we help each other, and cooperate to find a way when we've got a problem. Every cloud has a silver lining...
How to be an unselfish person?
Care about your friends. The first and the easiest thing to be an unselfish person is to care about your environment or your family/friends. You have to help your friends and I'm sure that they will help you if you have a problem. At least you don't have to be really concern about yourself...
Do you think that you're a selfish person?
I'm not a selfish person but sometimes I can be selfish. Selfishness is really hard to be erased in every people's mind. It's so hard and the only people who can erase the selfishness, is just yourself... You need to control your mind so as not to be selfish - I think...
"After all, I don't see why I am always asking for private, individual, selfish miracles when every year there are miracles like white dogwood." - Anne Morrow Lindbergh .
I wish all of the people in this world wouldn't be a selfish people. I believe that we can do it! We can do it! :)
"If you don't believe in yourself, you will feel the worst thing in your life..."
I always hate the time when I don't believe in myself. Just now when I was in my English course, I wanted to answer a question, but I didn't think that my answer was correct. I knew that I had to believe in myself, but I just got the influence - I didn't know where it came from... So, I wrote the wrong answer. You might not understand about this actually... At least, I'm speechless right now, I don't know how to tell to all of you. But... At least I just want to say to all of you, to believe in yourself... Due to the fact that I didn't believe in myself, I couldn't get the best score in my class.
I have learnt a lot of things from these quotes below...
"Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense." - Buddha
"It is always better to have no ideas than false ones; to believe nothing, than to believe what is wrong." - Thomas Jefferson
"The probability that we may fail in the struggle ought not to deter us from the support of a cause we believe to be just." - Abraham Lincoln "I do not believe in the God of theology who rewards good and punishes evil." - Albert Einstein
"So, just believe in yourself, and be confident. Start from right now, I will always be confident and believe in myself. Tadda!"
A 14 year-old girl, sarcastic, adventure lover, chocolate maniac, loves imagination and fantasy, believe and hope, games lover, peace lover, and a great sense of humor...
"I regard myself as a special person, because everyone is special, especially you, Friends..."